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After a while some people just get tired of it all. They just hang out at home, it's easier, and the things that used to be fun, aren't anymore. Similiar to co-workers I see nearing retirement age, they are burnt out on the whole thing, I think that happens regarding going out for a night on the town—once you hit 50 it all seems kinda of silly. I think the ideas to join meet up groups to hike or bike make more sense.
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As a single woman I didn't think about sports. Something is getting lost in translation here. You are looking for men who are seeking primarily a friend and companion. I doubt you're looking to have more kids and I doubt you're in the market for men in their 30s and early 40s. If older than 31, then I really don't care if she's 34 or 38…at that point I'm evaluating her as a companion and if the 38 year old is better looking with a better attitude, I'm going with her.
It sounds like you look pretty good for your age, so I think men would potentially be in play for you. But just as you look and act younger than your age, ffor assume that there aren't attractive men in their 60s that you might like.
I'm 53 and widowed with two teenagers. I made what I thought were the right choices and then doman husband died of cancer on me four years ago, so so much for that.
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Sidewinder and Anonymous if you represent what is available, I am not particularly hopeful about men in my own age group. There are exceptions to every rule, and everyone's individual circumstances may vary. If you would have read my post, you would have noticed that I said that men in their 40s are often looking for something different than men in their 30s.
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But the attraction for the reproductively-viable girl triggered deep biological responses that were beneath my socialized, logical consciousness. The broad point — as a 35 year old male organism, I am seeking the best possible biological mate. And while I never thought this consciously to myself, I'm sure that my subconscious perceived several Looking for older woman to hang out with of youth and fertility in the 21 year old that were absent in the 36 year old.
I will say however that its more than just physical traits. Reproduction is what humans do. There will come a point where year old women will no longer be interested in me. Perhaps in my mids I will value a close friend and companion more than anything else. And again, I realize there are exceptions to every rule.
Guys in their 30s date girls in their 30s all the time. But as a rule of thumb, guys in their 30s are still seeking mates, not companions. If I were a single girl in her 30s, I would be looking for men at least 10 years older.
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Further, there ARE quality men who appreciate a woman closer to her age. I know, I am one of them! I got a successful man at 42 years old.
He loves me because I am sensitive, kind, fun and that I have taken care of myself. He said the younger women are immature and difficult…so not all men are like this. There is more to love than the most nubile…you just have to be attractive enough. Real love is about friendship, kindness, compatibility, sharing, communication. I am sad you two see things in only economic terms but there is so much more to life and love than what you have espoused. I have to wonder what is it about your guys where you felt the need to post such things in such an unkind, unsupportive way.
Me thinks it's more about you than her. Your idea of home improvement stores is right on! I don't understand the hate of some people. Any group activity with men will do. Become a regular at a coffeehouse that attracts men of your age group, Saturday mornings are great with cyclists and exercisers. Culture clubs, hiking clubs,…make a list and try! Ignore the negative nellies…have fun while on your search and your vibration will attract like kind. I'm the anonymous that wrote about women thinking they Love to pleasure women or couples Chatelaillon-Plage many chances at love after they've blown it.
I think Sidewinder broke it down in a very honest and polite way. If you can't accept what Sidewinder said, you are in denial of the truth.
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Men don't like boring women who haven't done anything with their lives except build a hqng, have kids, or sleep around.
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Older women who are lonely owe a duty to younger women to tell them the truth about life and to stop sabotaging their happiness as self-justification for the mistakes the lonely older woman has made in her life.
Anonymous is exactly right, most women have been given more than a few shots at a lifelong relationship by the time they are in their late 20s. The current female peer culture is absolutely poisonous regarding commitment, marriage and family.
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You should have no hang ups by the time you're By being feminine and having an attractive body, you will find that you enjoy sex more. By being submissive, your man will be more dominant, which will turn you on more. As far as where to meet good older guys…first off, shoot for guys 10 or more years older. Guys in their 30s are still looking for reproductively viable females for the most part. The good news is that men in their 40s often look better than men in their 30s.
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Try Golf, as above, or take up some of the shooting sports—women do great at pistol competitions, and are really good at all types of marksmanship. Go to a gun show and see what a variety of folks you can meet.
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Great residential area for families, but damn it's a boring place for single people. But they also have older drunk white women that's desperate for attention prancing about. No, they don't look like the 22 year old half naked hotties at the fancy dance club.
But that's their version of age appropriate attention whoring. So you just have to find Loojing right place. Originally Posted by angie He is just young and immature and going through relationship troubles.
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Originally Posted by ratzskinakie. Usually the girls I'm with understand my intentions, whom are Looking for older woman to hang out with young sometimes college girls who most don't want to settle either but also want to have fun. I got many things going on right now, I'm olderr on my MBA while working on a new career, I move and travel a lot, at times for weeks end, sometimes seasonally "skiing, camping, etc.
I got goals and priorities right now and a girl wouldn't be able to keep up with me or my life style so it's kind of pointless to get in a relationship which I don't even desire to begin with, that can wait till later.
I have no problem with that but i'm also interested in having some fun wifh older women that are years old. It's hard to say.